Tricky things Threesomes
Tricky things threesomes! Tricky things Threesomes. Having a Threesome is a common fantasy for him and for her. If he says he has no interest – feel for a pulse! So I think it’s time to put our chips on the table and talk about it. I do this with some trepidation because the last […]
Shower Together with Waterproof Toys
Shower Together with Waterproof Toys Shower Together with Waterproof Toys. I can think of several reasons to shower together. I know that saving water is the most important one but it’s not. Showering together can be the sexiest and most relaxing part of the day. All you really need is your bodies, the correct temperature […]
The Fetish Erotic Cannibalism
The Fetish Erotic Cannibalism The Fetish Erotic Cannibalism. With very rare exceptions (the kind that hit the headlines) erotic cannibalism doesn’t involve eating flesh but rather preparing it as if to be eaten. This can take the form of basting a lover’s skin with oils, hog-tying them (securing their wrists to their ankles), ‘stuffing’ their […]
The Fetish Ballooning
The Fetish Ballooning The Fetish Ballooning. We’re not talking about flying high above the sky in a Balloon – we’re talking about the birthday party sort. I love the smell of balloons but I have to admit that the thought of them popping send shivers up my spine. But maybe that’s the point! Balloon fetishists […]
The Fetish Sploshing
The Fetish: Sploshing The Fetish Sploshing. From smearing cream all over each other’s bodies to a full-on food fight, sploshing’s all about having messy fun. “Food fights and pie battles might seem bizarre, but they’re a great way to release sexual inhibitions and have childlike fun,” says Hayley Brown, spokesperson for Splosh.co.uk. “For a woman […]
Sex and age
Sex and age. There is no upper age restriction on sex- despite what the children think! Sex and age. I recently met a woman, in her 80s who told me that she is finally having the best sex of her life. It reminded me of an elderly couple who used to come into the Lola […]
Overheard at a funeral
Overheard at a funeral Overheard at a funeral recently – A group of middle-aged women +40 or so were comparing how much of an inconvenience it is to have sex! One of them went so far as to say that if she never had sex again it would be too soon. Another in a separate […]
History of Sexology
History of Sexology Have you ever wondered why we know so little about female genitals and sexual pleasure? Let’s look at the history of sexology to understand why. We’ve having sex for approximately 50 000 years. There may be no written record of it, but we can safely assume this to be true as until […]
Global female condom day
Global female condom day is an important day in the sexual health calendar. 16 September Global Female (Internal) Condom Day Now more than ever, it is a critical moment to join individuals and organizations from around the world to raise our collective voices and affirm our commitment to sexual and reproductive health and choice for […]
Everyone needs love
Everyone Needs Love As we prepare for The Sex Expo in Menlyn on the 13 to 16 October, I’m mindful that not everybody feels the same way about sex. This was brought home when I asked fellow gym bunnies to test some product for me. I could have been asking for them to sacrifice their […]