The Fetish Electric Play
Fetish Electric Play. Electric play involves using implements such as ‘violet wands’ (handheld devices with electrical current dials) to induce mild electric shock in a person for erotic purposes.
“It’s about sensation and pain as well as power control,” explains dominatrix Mistress S. “I get a power trip from watching a slave wriggle at just the slightest twist of a dial. However, there’s no substitute lying around the house that can be used safely,” she warns.
“Anyone wanting to try electric play should invest in proper equipment designed for the purpose, and read all the instructions and advice on it they can lay their hands on.” Extreme fetishists get their kit from Electrastim.co.uk, which sells a variety of approved electrical play equipment. But for the more vanilla approach, try this…
Vanilla Tip
Cock Shocker
- “Vibrators can replicate elements of the sensation aspect of electric play,” says Mistress S.
- “Use a multi-speed vibe on a low setting on his nipples, balls and cock to assess his reaction.
- If he likes it, experiment with different speed settings.
- For the most extreme reaction, when he’s really hard carefully pull back his foreskin and use the vibe on the very tip of his cock in short bursts, recreating the pulse settings on electro-stimulation devices.”
- In between ‘shocks’, run the vibrator up and down his shaft.
- He’ll soon have an electrifying orgasm.
Check out our range of electro shock toys. Available from Lola Montez.
Sexual fantasies are a natural and normal part of human sexuality. They can vary widely from person to person, and what one person finds exciting, another might not. Here are 20 common sexual fantasies:
- Role-Playing: Acting out different characters or scenarios, such as boss and employee, doctor and patient, or teacher and student.
- Public Sex: The thrill of being intimate in a public place or the possibility of being caught.
- Domination and Submission: Exploring power dynamics, with one partner taking a dominant role and the other a submissive role.
- Threesomes: Involving a third person in the sexual experience.
- Voyeurism: Watching others engage in sexual activities.
- Exhibitionism: Being watched while engaging in sexual activities.
- Stranger Sex: Having a sexual encounter with someone they don’t know, often focusing on the anonymity and excitement of the unknown.
- Group Sex: Engaging in sexual activities with multiple partners at the same time.
- BDSM: Exploring bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism.
- Oral Sex: Giving or receiving oral pleasure.
- Seduction: The process of seducing someone or being seduced, focusing on the buildup and anticipation.
- Sex with a Celebrity: Imagining being intimate with a famous person.
- Sex in Unusual Locations: Such as on the beach, in a car, or in an office.
- Tantric Sex: Prolonging sexual pleasure and focusing on deep connection and mindfulness during intimacy.
- Fantasies Involving Costumes: Dressing up in specific outfits like uniforms, lingerie, or fantasy costumes.
- Anal Sex: Engaging in anal intercourse.
- Swinging: Exchanging partners with another couple.
- Sensory Play: Using blindfolds, feathers, ice, or other objects to heighten sensations.
- Interracial or Intercultural Sex: Fantasizing about being with someone from a different race or culture.
- Sex with an Ex: Imagining a sexual encounter with a former partner, often focusing on nostalgia or unresolved feelings.
These fantasies are just examples and might not resonate with everyone. Communication and consent are essential in any sexual relationship, especially when exploring fantasies.