Pleasure Party come back.
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Pleasure Party come back. Pleasure Party come back. I did my first pleasure party in about 7 years this past week! I’d forgotten how much fun they can be, so thanks to the group of women who organized it. A pleasure party is a bit like a Tupperware Party where all the product vibrates. They […]
Can men have multiple orgasms?
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Can men have multiple orgasms? Can men have multiple orgasms? Women are constantly under pressure to perform like porn stars and believe me many of try. We will have designer bikini waxes, bleach our anus, and groan in ways that if heard in isolation sounds like wounded buffalo! We have to find and enjoy our […]
Masturbation Month – every May.
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Masturbation Month – every May. May is Masturbation Month. I know it’s the last weekend in May and I should have told you earlier, but I thought I’d remind you that it is good for you all year round. With winter firmly established it’s a good way to keep your kit on but still have […]
Pride
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Pride Month Pride. Can you believe it’s June and that we’re almost through half the year. At the moment I am helping with renovations and everyday flashes by, but the work moves at a snail’s pace. My patience as well as my budget is being tested to the max! The last thing I felt like […]
From sexy inferno to sensual slow burn.
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From sexy inferno to sensual slow burn From sexy inferno to sensual slow burn. Sex sells. Fiery sex sells. Tied up sex sells. Romantic sex sells. Real mid-life and beyond sex, wrinkly sex, menopausal sex. Unfortunately doesn’t bring in the marketing budget, but it’s the real dirty pleasure secret! The truth that the marketing department […]
Youth Day and Courage.
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Youth Day and Courage Youth Day and Courage. June 16 marks a public holiday in South Africa celebrating Youth Day. For those of us who are old enough to remember it marks the Youth uprising in 1976 in Soweto. We had such high hopes for a future democratic South Africa. I used to be extremely […]
Winter – not a fan.
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Winter – I’m not a fan. Winter – not a fan. Granted my winter clothes are finer than my summer ones and by that, I mean smarter, not that anyone gets to see them in my current lifestyle. My house is freezing and in the good old days when we had electricity, and it was […]
7 Days of Sex
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A Challenge – 7 Days of Sex 7 Days of Sex. You Can Do It by Katie Olson | September 10, 2015 We are all constantly on the lookout for quick fixes to our marital difficulties, but it is time to acknowledge that there is no such thing! Marriage takes work, but some chores can […]
10 Reasons to buy a Sex Toy
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10 reasons to buy a SEX TOY – instead of going out for dinner. 10 Reasons to buy a Sex Toy. Pleasure lasts longer – for those of you who don’t know a sex toy is a wonderful wing man. It adds a huge amount of fun to foreplay. You can use it on yourself […]
10 Things you didn’t know about the Vagina
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10 Things You Didn’t Know About Vaginas 10 Things you didn’t know about the Vagina. This article has not been written by me but by Kaylen Jackson who writes extensively for www.askdanandjennifer.com . She writes fantastic articles and I really don’t think that I could do this any better. So thanks Kaylen – Sex is […]