A Guide to Exploring Toys for Women-Seeking-Women
A Guide to Exploring Toys for Women-Seeking-Women: Beyond the Basics: At Lola Montez, we believe that exploring new sensations with your partner should be an exciting journey, not a confusing one. We recently received a wonderful enquiry from a couple looking to dive into the world of strap-ons, grinders, and wearable toys. Because we know […]
Season to be Kind
Season to be Kind Season to be Kind It’s that time of the year. We’re all rushing to slow down. I can feel the year impaled in my bones and cannot wait to take a break. If you’re in hospitality this is the busy and silly season, so be kind to those around you. I […]
Mind & Body: How Mental Health Shapes Your Sexual Well-Being
Mind & Body: How Mental Health Shapes Your Sexual Well-Being Mind & Body: How Mental Health Shapes Your Sexual Well-Being – 10 October is World Mental Health Day. When I hear about mental health, I’m torn between it’s important and suck it up. I’m of that generation where mental health wasn’t discussed and definitely wasn’t on […]
Do you watch Porn?
Do you watch porn? I bet your first instinct was to lie about it. Don’t feel bad, it’s a natural instinct. In a study conducted in 2023, 44% of adults claimed never to view porn. The study also found that watching pornography increases the likelihood of lying about it. This suggests that the percentages of […]
Kink Month Unleashed: Exploring the Art of Pleasure & Play
Kink Month Unleashed: Exploring the Art of Pleasure & Play Kink Month Unleashed: Exploring the Art of Pleasure & Play. According to some random on Instagram it’s National Kink Month. Not sure which nation, but what the hell, let’s take it as our own. Last week I was in Hannover, Germany for Erofame 24. It’s […]
Masturbation and madness
Masturbation and madness? Masturbation and madness. It will not drive you to madness. It doesn’t make you a sicko and it certainly isn’t sinful. I challenge you all to read the section of the Bible you’ve HEARD about but never actually read! Masturbation does not have to be a solo occupation nor is it bad […]
30 Days to Deeper Desire: A Challenge to Boost Sexual Intimacy
30 Days to Deeper Desire: A Challenge to Boost Sexual Intimacy 30 Days to Deeper Desire: A Challenge to Boost Sexual Intimacy. Are you ready for a challenge? This one is a sex challenge that will help you and your partner reconnect sexually. It may also increase intimacy and reawaken desire. It starts with you […]
40 Staycation Ideas
40 Staycation Ideas 40 Staycation Ideas. Share yours in the comments below and stand a chance to win a R1500 voucher to spend on lolamontez.co.za Here’s a list of 40 staycation ideas for couples that you can use in your blog. Feel free to adapt them to your audience: Romantic & Cozy Candlelit Dinner at […]
Breaking the Myths: The Truth About the Hymen and Virginity
Breaking the Myths: The Truth About the Hymen and Virginity Breaking the Myths: The Truth About the Hymen and Virginity. I often give talks to young girls about menstrual health and hygiene. As part of the discussion, I also talk about reproduction because as we hopefully all know that once you have had your first […]
Unlocking the Secrets: Threesome Experience
Unlocking the Secrets: How to Confidently Prepare for Your First Threesome Experience Unlocking the Secrets: How to Confidently Prepare for Your First Threesome Experience. Let’s talk about the most common sexual fantasy of them all. I was going to say fantasy but at my stage of life that amounts to eight hours of uninterrupted sleep! […]