Are Adult Toys Haram in Islam?
Are Adult Toys Haram in Islam? Let’s Talk About It Are Adult Toys Haram in Islam? When it comes to sexuality, pleasure, and personal well-being, religion can play an important guiding role in many people’s lives. One of the most frequently asked questions we get at Lola Montez, especially from our Muslim community, is: “Are […]
Viva Vagina
Viva Vagina Viva Vagina. I’ve been learning all about menopause and more specifically menopause and its effect on our genitals. It’s not pretty. From the time we become aware of our genitals a woman is fed a stream of les about what it should look like, feel like and smell like. We obsess about our […]
Techniques to increase your Libido
Techniques to increase your Libido Techniques to increase your Libido – It seems as if this year I’m a bit more obsessed with libido. I’ve mentioned before that I’ve been doing a Menopause Mentorship Course and am now happy to announce that I completed it. I got 97% and have an issue with the one […]
My Personal Journey
My personal Journey My personal journey or should I say sexual journey is just that, a journey. It has changed as I have gotten older and wiser. I lost my virginity when I was 20. Don’t you just love the language of sex? I lost it, as if it fell out of my pocket, never […]
Kegels and when to Stop
Kegels and when to Stop Kegels and when to stop? For years I’ve been advocating doing kegel exercises and using Benwa Balls. The reason? As we get older our pelvic floor starts to weaken, just like your jowls, all the muscles in your body start to lose mass and firmness. In men and women lose […]
Toys in Twenty Five
Toys in Twenty Five After over 20 years in the adult toy industry, I still get asked the same questions I was asking 40 years ago. It’s not surprising because we still don’t talk openly about them and certainly don’t admit to owning them. Except me of course. I have a cupboard full. I ran […]
7 steps to help cure premature ejaculation.
7 steps to help cure premature ejaculation. 7 Steps to help cure premature ejaculation. I can’t imagine what pressures there are on men when it comes to sexual performance. Women can but shouldn’t fake it. With men, well that’s a whole different story. The first thing they have to contend with are erections. Is he […]
10 Ways to reconnect with your partner.
10 Ways to reconnect with your partner. 10 ways to reconnect with your partner. Do you ever feel that no matter what you say it’s misunderstood. You talk past each other, you’re both sensitive and it’s just not working. It is time to step back, reassess and figure out how to move forward. Communication is […]
Communication and Intimacy
Communication and Intimacy We keep getting told that the secret to a great relationship is Communication! It’s something we are notoriously bad at. Nobody teaches how to do this vital life skill. I’ve watched my kids in the back of the car, texting each other rather than talking. Having a real conversation with anyone is […]
7 Types of Female Orgasm
7 Types of Female Orgasm 7 Types of Female Orgasm. Variety is the spice of life and while many of us are happy to experience just one type of orgasm, there is a variety of different types of orgasm available to us. It may be easier said than done. Female orgasms are as diverse as […]