Breaking the Myths: The Truth About the Hymen and Virginity

Breaking the Myths: The Truth About the Hymen and Virginity Breaking the Myths: The Truth About the Hymen and Virginity. I often give talks to young girls about menstrual health and hygiene. As part of the discussion, I also talk about reproduction because as we hopefully all know that once you have had your first […]
Unlocking the Secrets: Threesome Experience

Unlocking the Secrets: How to Confidently Prepare for Your First Threesome Experience Unlocking the Secrets: How to Confidently Prepare for Your First Threesome Experience. Let’s talk about the most common sexual fantasy of them all. I was going to say fantasy but at my stage of life that amounts to eight hours of uninterrupted sleep! […]
Save It or Break It: The Ultimate Guide to Reviving or Ending Your Relationship

Save It or Break It: The Ultimate Guide to Reviving or Ending Your Relationship Save It or Break It: The Ultimate Guide to Reviving or Ending Your Relationship. I was once asked how come I had so many husbands and thought that I could hand out advise on sex, intimacy and relationships. I would have […]
Menopause & Your Vagina: What to Expect and How to Thrive

Menopause & Your Vagina: What to Expect and How to Thrive Menopause & Your Vagina: What to Expect and How to Thrive has finally hit the headlines. Halle Berry has developed a new lubricant range, Oprah is talking about it and many of us are, I hesitate to say, suffering from it. It’s not enough […]
Myths and Legends – In search of the G-Spot.

Myths and Legends – In search of the G-Spot. Myths and Legends – In search of the G-Spot. Never before has one little spot caused so much angst and dilemma for us girls. I would have loved to have been there when a German gynaecologist, Dr Ernest Gräfenberg discovered this spot in the 1950s. It […]
Bound for Pleasure: Understanding the Meaning of Bondage

Bound for Pleasure: Understanding the Meaning of Bondage Bound for Pleasure: Understanding the Meaning of Bondage. I was recently watching a YouTube video on some random subject, when the presenter stated that the language we use matters. That we should make sure that we use the correct word. We throw the acronym BDSM around with […]
10 Ways to narrow the Pleasure Gap

10 Ways to narrow the Pleasure Gap 10 Ways to narrow the Pleasure Gap. I never realised that there was a word for women not being able to orgasm as easily as men. I always knew that it existed and that there was a legacy and story behind it. Now I know it’s a very […]
Unpacking Hentai: The Rise of a Fantastical Phenomenon

Unpacking Hentai: The Rise of a Fantastical Phenomenon Hentai, a term derived from Japanese, translates loosely to “perversion” or “abnormality.” In the context of adult entertainment, it refers specifically to erotic or pornographic anime and manga. This unique art form has captivated audiences worldwide, transforming from a niche subculture into a dominant force in adult […]
Shame must change sides

Shame must change sides Shame must change sides. How many times have you heard in a movie or a TV programme ‘But she wanted it’! This is usually referring to a woman who has been raped. I know the latest appropriate term is sexually assaulted, but I think that it somehow softens the brutality of […]
Sex Records

Sex Records Sex Records. There is just so little research done on female sexuality. This includes the research on our body parts, how medication affects us, orgasms or the lack of orgasms, vaginismus and menopause. We are slowly starting. Imagine my surprise when I came across the wildest sex records! For a bit of fun […]