Bizarre Sex Records
Bizarre Sex Records Bizarre Sex Records. There is just so little research done on female sexuality. This includes the research on our body parts, how medication affects us, orgasms or the lack of orgasms, vaginismus and menopause. We are slowly starting. Imagine my surprise when I came across the wildest sex records! For a bit […]
Sex Toy Bans around the World
Sex Toy Bans around the World I’ve been in the adult toy industry now for over 22 years. At one time in the Old South Africa, sex toys and pornography were illegal. There was a great opportunity to smuggle Playboys over the border from Swaziland and sell them in SA. If you got caught, jail. […]
A Guide to Exploring Toys for Women-Seeking-Women
A Guide to Exploring Toys for Women-Seeking-Women: Beyond the Basics: At Lola Montez, we believe that exploring new sensations with your partner should be an exciting journey, not a confusing one. We recently received a wonderful enquiry from a couple looking to dive into the world of strap-ons, grinders, and wearable toys. Because we know […]
Season to be Kind
Season to be Kind Season to be Kind It’s that time of the year. We’re all rushing to slow down. I can feel the year impaled in my bones and cannot wait to take a break. If you’re in hospitality this is the busy and silly season, so be kind to those around you. I […]
Mind & Body: How Mental Health Shapes Your Sexual Well-Being
Mind & Body: How Mental Health Shapes Your Sexual Well-Being Mind & Body: How Mental Health Shapes Your Sexual Well-Being – 10 October is World Mental Health Day. When I hear about mental health, I’m torn between it’s important and suck it up. I’m of that generation where mental health wasn’t discussed and definitely wasn’t on […]
Do you watch Porn?
Do you watch porn? I bet your first instinct was to lie about it. Don’t feel bad, it’s a natural instinct. In a study conducted in 2023, 44% of adults claimed never to view porn. The study also found that watching pornography increases the likelihood of lying about it. This suggests that the percentages of […]
Kink Month Unleashed: Exploring the Art of Pleasure & Play
Kink Month Unleashed: Exploring the Art of Pleasure & Play Kink Month Unleashed: Exploring the Art of Pleasure & Play. According to some random on Instagram it’s National Kink Month. Not sure which nation, but what the hell, let’s take it as our own. Last week I was in Hannover, Germany for Erofame 24. It’s […]
Masturbation and madness
Masturbation and madness? Masturbation and madness. It will not drive you to madness. It doesn’t make you a sicko and it certainly isn’t sinful. I challenge you all to read the section of the Bible you’ve HEARD about but never actually read! Masturbation does not have to be a solo occupation nor is it bad […]
30 Days to Deeper Desire: A Challenge to Boost Sexual Intimacy
30 Days to Deeper Desire: A Challenge to Boost Sexual Intimacy 30 Days to Deeper Desire: A Challenge to Boost Sexual Intimacy. Are you ready for a challenge? This one is a sex challenge that will help you and your partner reconnect sexually. It may also increase intimacy and reawaken desire. It starts with you […]
40 Staycation Ideas
40 Staycation Ideas 40 Staycation Ideas. Share yours in the comments below and stand a chance to win a R1500 voucher to spend on lolamontez.co.za Here’s a list of 40 staycation ideas for couples that you can use in your blog. Feel free to adapt them to your audience: Romantic & Cozy Candlelit Dinner at […]