38 Questions to Increase Intimacy
38 questions designed to help increase intimacy with your partner: 38 Questions to Increase Intimacy with your partner. These questions may challenge you but they will only work if you are completely honest with each other. Good Luck. What is your favorite memory of us together? How do you feel when we’re apart? What is something […]
Fearless Teller of Necessary Truths!
TFearless Teller of Necessary Truths! Fearless Teller of Necessary Truths! For a long time now, I have been disheartened. I’ve been in the sexual health industry for almost 20 years, and I honestly believed I could change the world. I believe that sex is not dirty, that pleasure is a right and that sex toys […]
Sex Toys and Supermarkets
Sex Toys and Supermarkets Sex Toys and Supermarkets. Not long ago I wrote a column on how irritated I am about how people perceive shops like Lola Montez and a colleague’s shop in Pretoria. I know I’m always bleating on about how we should normalize talking about sex and adult toys because I have a […]
From sexy inferno to sensual slow burn
From sexy inferno to sensual slow burn From sexy inferno to sensual slow burn. Sex sells. Fiery sex sells. Tied up sex sells. Romantic sex sells. Real mid-life and beyond sex, wrinkly sex, menopausal sex unfortunately doesn’t bring in the marketing budget, but it’s the real dirty pleasure secret! The truth that the marketing department is not […]
Guybrator Pleasure
Guybrator Pleasure Guybrator Pleasure. Not having a penis has its disadvantages. For one it is very difficult for me to imagine what will be pleasurable for a penis owner! I always suspect that it doesn’t need much to experience pleasure, but I may be way off the mark. I do think the penis is a […]
Having your needs met.
Unlocking Happiness: The Importance of Having Your Needs Met Unlocking Happiness, the importance of having your needs met. Last week I wrote about how to communicate with your partner during sex. If you missed it go back and have a read. This week I want to address what you can do when your partner can’t […]
The Art of Connection
The Art of Connection: How to Enhance Communication with Your Partner The art of connection – how to enhance Communication with your partner. Effective communication is the cornerstone of a healthy and fulfilling relationship. Whether it’s a romantic partnership, a familial bond, or a friendship, the ability to communicate openly and honestly can strengthen your […]
Endometriosis and Intimacy: Tips for Managing Pain and Enhancing Pleasure
Endometriosis and Intimacy: Tips for Managing Pain and Enhancing Pleasure Endometriosis and Intimacy: Tips for Managing Pain and Enhancing Pleasure. There’s a great deal of social media around endometriosis at the moment. I must say I didn’t ever think about it until my niece had a problem conceiving. Endometriosis was the diagnosis. I’m happy to […]
Knead to Know: Essential Massage Tips
Knead to Know: Essential Massage Tips Knead to Know: Essential Massage Tips for Men: I spoiled myself this week and had a full body massage. There was nothing erotic about it and certainly no happy ending. While I was lying there trying to get two years’ worth of knots out my shoulders, I wondered why […]
Fetish vs Kink
Fetish or Kink? Exploring the Differences in Erotic Play This week we celebrated Fetish Day. Since Fifty Shades of Grey made headlines a couple of years ago, there’s a lot more talk about fetish and kink. We often use the terms interchangeably and while some of the aspects are similar there is one very clear […]