Toys in Twenty Five
Toys in Twenty Five After over 20 years in the adult toy industry, I still get asked the same questions I was asking 40 years ago. It’s not surprising because we still don’t talk openly about them and certainly don’t admit to owning them. Except me of course. I have a cupboard full. I ran […]
7 steps to help cure premature ejaculation.
7 steps to help cure premature ejaculation. 7 Steps to help cure premature ejaculation. I can’t imagine what pressures there are on men when it comes to sexual performance. Women can but shouldn’t fake it. With men, well that’s a whole different story. The first thing they have to contend with are erections. Is he […]
10 Ways to reconnect with your partner.
10 Ways to reconnect with your partner. 10 ways to reconnect with your partner. Do you ever feel that no matter what you say it’s misunderstood. You talk past each other, you’re both sensitive and it’s just not working. It is time to step back, reassess and figure out how to move forward. Communication is […]
Communication and Intimacy
Communication and Intimacy We keep getting told that the secret to a great relationship is Communication! It’s something we are notoriously bad at. Nobody teaches how to do this vital life skill. I’ve watched my kids in the back of the car, texting each other rather than talking. Having a real conversation with anyone is […]
7 Types of Female Orgasm
7 Types of Female Orgasm 7 Types of Female Orgasm. Variety is the spice of life and while many of us are happy to experience just one type of orgasm, there is a variety of different types of orgasm available to us. It may be easier said than done. Female orgasms are as diverse as […]
18 Masturbation Tips for Women
18 Masturbation Tips for Women 18 Masturbation Tips for Women. Masturbation remains such a taboo subject for women. We automatically assume that boys are having a good feel but the thought of women and girls getting in on the action is enough to send most of us into a tailspin. Not many women masturbate as […]
Bondage Contract
Unlock Deeper Connection: Download Your Bondage Contract Today! Exploring BDSM can be thrilling, but it’s essential to establish clear boundaries before diving in. Whether you’re a beginner or an experienced player, understanding your limits—both hard and soft—is crucial for a safe, consensual, and enjoyable experience. That’s why we’ve created a Bondage Contract—a simple yet effective […]
38 Questions to Increase Intimacy
38 questions designed to help increase intimacy with your partner: 38 Questions to Increase Intimacy with your partner. These questions may challenge you but they will only work if you are completely honest with each other. Good Luck. What is your favorite memory of us together? How do you feel when we’re apart? What is something […]
Fearless Teller of Necessary Truths!
TFearless Teller of Necessary Truths! Fearless Teller of Necessary Truths! For a long time now, I have been disheartened. I’ve been in the sexual health industry for almost 20 years, and I honestly believed I could change the world. I believe that sex is not dirty, that pleasure is a right and that sex toys […]
Sex Toys and Supermarkets
Sex Toys and Supermarkets Sex Toys and Supermarkets. Not long ago I wrote a column on how irritated I am about how people perceive shops like Lola Montez and a colleague’s shop in Pretoria. I know I’m always bleating on about how we should normalize talking about sex and adult toys because I have a […]