8 Steps for Consent
8 Steps for Consent 8 Steps for Consent. We’ve just come out of 16 Days of Activism against Gender-Based Violence. The 16 Days of Activism against Gender-Based Violence is an annual international campaign that kicked off on 25 November, the International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women, and ran until 10 December, International […]
NOvember
aNOvember. NOvember. I’m sure you’ve seen the social media around NOvember, it seems to be taking over from MOvember. NOvember is extremely relevant in South Africa with our out of control gender based violence. The play is on NO because No always means No. Saying no cannot not lead to a woman being assaulted or […]
Double Trouble and other finger techniques
Double Trouble and other finger techniques Double Trouble and other finger techniques. Last week we gave pleasure to the penis and this week it’s the vulva’s turn. Now for those of you who don’t know the vulva is the outside part of the female genitalia and the vagina the inside bits that you can’t see […]
Erogenous zones that aren’t genitals.
Erogenous zones that aren’t genitals. Erogenous zones that aren’t genitals. Regular readers will know that I often talk about prime real estate when it comes to foreplay. What I’m referring to is the areas on the body that are associated with sex and pleasure. They are the go-to areas, these include genitals and nipples. And […]
Menopause a wild ride.
Menopause a wild ride Menopause, a wild ride. Ah, menopause, the biological rollercoaster that takes women on a wild ride through hot flashes, mood swings, and an inexplicable desire to own more cats and eat your own children. It’s the time of life when your thermostat becomes your arch-nemesis, and chocolate becomes a legitimate form […]
Massage Tips for Him
Massage Tips for Him:- Massage Tips for Him. Invest in good quality massage oils, one that doesn’t absorb into the skin that easily. Anything made from grape seed oil or soy is great for massage. Try getting one with a ylang ylang or spicy scent as this will awaken those sensual senses. Have him lie […]
Be Part of the Lola Montez Community
Be a part of the Lola Montez Community Be Part of the Lola Montez Community. Join our Lola Montez Community of Sexual Health and Wellness Consultants. After more than 20 years, Lola Montez continues to be a trusted name in sexual health and wellness in South Africa. We bring superior products to our customers while […]
Everyone needs love
Everyone Needs Love Everyone needs love. We need to realize that love and sexuality are not just for the young and beautiful. The images in adverts, movies and magazines, indoctrinate us into believing that one needs to have perfect teeth, perfect looks and a perfect body to be deserving of love. NOT TRUE. “Sexual health […]
The Art of Roleplay
The Art of Roleplay – Dressing Up and Getting Down There’s nothing as hot as being yourself—except possibly being yourself, being somebody else. Have you ever been to a masked ball or a fancy dress party? Wasn’t it exciting to be outside of yourself? It is the same excitement with Erotic Fantasy play. How to […]
Importance of Consent, No Means NO.
Importance of Consent, No means NO The importance of Consent is the most important part of any sexual encounter. If you do have sex without consent it is illegal and you can go to jail. What constitutes consent? A recent survey found that everybody agreed that consent was essential when it came to sex. And […]