Myths and Legends – In search of the G-Spot.
Myths and Legends – In search of the G-Spot. Myths and Legends – In search of the G-Spot. Never before has one little spot caused so much angst and dilemma for us girls. I would have loved to have been there when a German gynaecologist, Dr Ernest Gräfenberg discovered this spot in the 1950s. It […]
Bound for Pleasure: Understanding the Meaning of Bondage
Bound for Pleasure: Understanding the Meaning of Bondage Bound for Pleasure: Understanding the Meaning of Bondage. I was recently watching a YouTube video on some random subject, when the presenter stated that the language we use matters. That we should make sure that we use the correct word. We throw the acronym BDSM around with […]
10 Ways to narrow the Pleasure Gap
10 Ways to narrow the Pleasure Gap 10 Ways to narrow the Pleasure Gap. I never realised that there was a word for women not being able to orgasm as easily as men. I always knew that it existed and that there was a legacy and story behind it. Now I know it’s a very […]
Unpacking Hentai: The Rise of a Fantastical Phenomenon
Unpacking Hentai: The Rise of a Fantastical Phenomenon Hentai, a term derived from Japanese, translates loosely to “perversion” or “abnormality.” In the context of adult entertainment, it refers specifically to erotic or pornographic anime and manga. This unique art form has captivated audiences worldwide, transforming from a niche subculture into a dominant force in adult […]
Shame must change sides
Shame must change sides Shame must change sides. How many times have you heard in a movie or a TV programme ‘But she wanted it’! This is usually referring to a woman who has been raped. I know the latest appropriate term is sexually assaulted, but I think that it somehow softens the brutality of […]
Sex Records
Sex Records Sex Records. There is just so little research done on female sexuality. This includes the research on our body parts, how medication affects us, orgasms or the lack of orgasms, vaginismus and menopause. We are slowly starting. Imagine my surprise when I came across the wildest sex records! For a bit of fun […]
5 Libido Enhancers
5 Libido Enhancers 5 Libido enhancers this year. Let us strive to thrive in 25! – How’s that for starting off the year? Rhyming and all that. If like me you’re still waiting to start last year’s resolutions then let me offer some advice, forget about resolutions and move on. You need to slowly change […]
Gifting Sex Toys
Gifting Sex Toys Gifting Sex Toys. Have you ever thought of gifting a sex toy? I’m assuming of course that you are enlightened and own at least one if not several adult toys. If not show this article to your bestie and hope for the next birthday present to be a sex toy. Gifting an […]
Sex Toy Bans
Sex Toy Bans Sex Toy Bans. I’ve been in the adult toy industry now for over 22 years. At one time in the Old South Africa, sex toys and pornography were illegal. There was a great opportunity to smuggle Playboys over the border from Swaziland and sell them in SA. If you got caught, you […]
Strategies to combat a lack of libido
Strategies to combat a lack of libido. Lack of libido is a common symptom during menopause due to hormonal changes, particularly the decline in estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone levels. While this can affect desire and sexual pleasure, there are several strategies you can try to help combat this symptom and restore a healthy libido: Hormone Replacement […]