Five Sex Languages
Five Sex Languages Five Sex Languages. We’ve all heard about the five languages of love, and I hope by now you’ve worked it out and told your partner. Mine is definitely service and my partner’s is touch but did you know there are five sex languages? You will probably prefer one or the other and […]
Sex should NEVER Hurt
Sex should NEVER Hurt Sex should never hurt. True but just like ‘Love means never having to say you’re sorry’, I call Bull#$%^. There are many reasons why sex can hurt or be uncomfortable. The one truth is that it can be treated and alleviated. The trick is to identify the cause. For Men Pain […]
Can Adult Toys Cause BV?
Can Adult Toys Cause BV? Can Adult Toys Cause BV? At Lola Montez, we believe pleasure should always come with knowledge, safety, and zero shame. That’s why we love answering your real questions, like this one: “Can adult toys cause BV?” And also… “What does BV even stand for?” Let’s talk about it. 🧫 What […]
Are Adult Toys Allowed on Cruise Ships?
Are Adult Toys Allowed on Cruise Ships? Here’s What You Need to Know Are Adult Toys Allowed on Cruise Ships? Planning a romantic getaway or a solo cruise to unwind and reconnect with yourself? You might be wondering… “Can I pack my favourite adult toy in my suitcase?” The short answer is: Yes, you usually […]
Can Adult Toys Cause UTIs?
Can Adult Toys Cause UTIs? What You Need to Know Can adult toys cause UTIs? Sexual wellness is empowering, but it should also be safe. At Lola Montez, we believe in pleasure with peace of mind, which means answering questions many people are too shy to ask. One we hear often: “Can adult toys cause […]
Are Adult Toys Haram in Islam?
Are Adult Toys Haram in Islam? Let’s Talk About It Are Adult Toys Haram in Islam? When it comes to sexuality, pleasure, and personal well-being, religion can play an important guiding role in many people’s lives. One of the most frequently asked questions we get at Lola Montez, especially from our Muslim community, is: “Are […]
Viva Vagina
Viva Vagina Viva Vagina. I’ve been learning all about menopause and more specifically menopause and its effect on our genitals. It’s not pretty. From the time we become aware of our genitals a woman is fed a stream of les about what it should look like, feel like and smell like. We obsess about our […]
Techniques to increase your Libido
Techniques to increase your Libido Techniques to increase your Libido – It seems as if this year I’m a bit more obsessed with libido. I’ve mentioned before that I’ve been doing a Menopause Mentorship Course and am now happy to announce that I completed it. I got 97% and have an issue with the one […]
My Personal Journey
My personal Journey My personal journey or should I say sexual journey is just that, a journey. It has changed as I have gotten older and wiser. I lost my virginity when I was 20. Don’t you just love the language of sex? I lost it, as if it fell out of my pocket, never […]
Kegels and when to Stop
Kegels and when to Stop Kegels and when to stop? For years I’ve been advocating doing kegel exercises and using Benwa Balls. The reason? As we get older our pelvic floor starts to weaken, just like your jowls, all the muscles in your body start to lose mass and firmness. In men and women lose […]