It’s not your Shame!
It’s not your shame! It’s not your Shame! I’ve just finished reading a book called ‘It ends with us’ by Colleen Hoover, and before that a thriller the name of which I cannot remember. What disturbed me is how cynical I’ve become. They each have the ideal man in them. The type we are all […]
Which toy – how to decide.
Which toy? How to decide. Which toy – how to decide. It’s that time again! I’ve recently had a spate of questions about how to pick a sex toy. It always starts with ‘I’m so embarrassed!’ and my reply is almost always ‘Why? This is the most significant decision you are making for your mental […]
Menopause – one of the many phases of being a woman.
Menopause – one of the many phases of being a woman. Menopause – one of the many phases of being a woman.As you know I am an avid member of a number of social media groups. I also follow Oprah on Instagram and menopause is a hot topic at the moment. Recently despite my HRT […]
Words to say.
Words to say. Words to say. I’m often asked how to go about spicing up a relationship especially one that has seen it’s glory days. The flame is all but extinguished. We all want to be loved, desired, feel clever, strong or to feel beautiful. Much of this can be accomplished with words. So, this […]
Solo Pleasure
Solo Pleasure Solo Pleasure! I recently saw a Lola Montez post from many years ago. Sex is like a garage. Sometimes you get a full service, sometimes you have to ask for a service and sometimes you are happy with self service. When it comes to self-service, we often shy away from talking about it […]
10 Ways to reconnect with your lover.
0 Ways to reconnect with your lover. 10 Ways to reconnect with your lover. Do you ever feel that no matter what you say it’s misunderstood. You talk past each other, you’re both sensitive and it’s just not working. It is time to step back, reassess and figure out how to move forward. Communication is […]
Orgasms Explained.
Orgasms Explained. Orgasms Explained What is an Orgasm? We’re often asked – “how do I know if I’ve had an orgasm? I believe that if you have to ask – You haven’t. Most of us have heard stories of explosions, quaking thighs and multiple orgasms, leaving some of us to wonder: what am I missing? […]
Try a Surrender Date!
Try a surrender date. Try a Surrender Date. I’ve been on a mini break with school friends. I hesitate to call them old friends because although we are no longer spring chickens, we don’t like to be considered old. We’ve known each other for over 40 years. We are all successful in our chosen fields, […]
Pleasure Party come back.
Pleasure Party come back. Pleasure Party come back. I did my first pleasure party in about 7 years this past week! I’d forgotten how much fun they can be, so thanks to the group of women who organized it. A pleasure party is a bit like a Tupperware Party where all the product vibrates. They […]
Can men have multiple orgasms?
Can men have multiple orgasms? Can men have multiple orgasms? Women are constantly under pressure to perform like porn stars and believe me many of try. We will have designer bikini waxes, bleach our anus, and groan in ways that if heard in isolation sounds like wounded buffalo! We have to find and enjoy our […]