Setting Intimacy Intentions
As the clock struck midnight and we ushered in a new year, a new day or a new relationship, many of us followed the age-old tradition of setting resolutions. We’ve joined the gyms, cleared out the pantries, and updated our journals. But at Lola Montez, we believe there is one area of self-improvement that often gets overlooked in our annual “reset”: our intimate lives.
If the past was about keeping up with the pace of the world, let the future be the year you slow down, reconnect, and rediscover the landscape of your own pleasure—and that of your partner.
Setting “Intimacy Intentions” is more than just a resolution; it’s a commitment to your holistic well-being. Here is how you can elevate your connection this year.
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Prioritize Presence Over Routine
It’s easy for intimacy to become a “to-do” list item. This year, set an intention to prioritize presence. This means putting the phones away (a true Lola Montez staple) and focusing on the sensory experience.
The Upgrade: Enhance this sensory journey with a high-quality lubricant. Many see lubricant as a “fix” for a problem, but in 2026, we’re reframing it as a luxury essential. A premium, silk-textured lubricant reduces friction and heightens every touch, making the transition from a busy day to an intimate night feel effortless and indulgent.
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Explore the “Curiosity Gap”
How well do you know your own body—or your partner’s—after all these years? Our bodies are dynamic, and what felt good last year might be different now. Make it a goal to explore new “maps” of pleasure.
The Upgrade: This is where the intentional use of adult toys becomes a game-changer. Introducing a new device isn’t about replacing a partner; it’s about expanding your “pleasure vocabulary.” Whether it’s a subtle vibrator designed for shared play or a solo-exploration tool that helps you understand your own peak sensations, these devices are the ultimate companions for a year of discovery.
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Communicate the “Unspoken”
We often expect our partners to be mind-readers. This year, make it a goal to speak your desires out loud. Communication is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Discuss what you want to try, what you want more of, and even the things you’re curious about but haven’t dared to mention.
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Invest in Your Sexual Wellness
You wouldn’t run a marathon without the right shoes, so why approach intimacy without the right tools? Investing in your sexual health is a form of self-care.
By curated selection of Lola Montez toys and wellness products, you are telling yourself that your pleasure matters. High-grade silicone, rechargeable technology, and body-safe formulas aren’t just features—they are a testament to the respect you have for your body.
Lola Montez suggests 10 of the Best
- Womanizer Next Duo ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Best Overall Luxury Toy
- We-Vibe Chorus Pro – Best Couples Toy
- LELO SONA 2 Cruise – Best Clitoral Stimulator
- LELO Lily 3 – Best Travel Toy
- We-Vibe Melt – Best Air-Pulse Toy for Couples
- Lovense Lush 4 –Best App-Controlled Toy
- ROMP Presto
- Dame Com Wand Massager
- Easytoys Ring Play Penis Ring
- Black Bondage Collection from Secret Play
Your Intimacy Challenge
Before the month is out, we challenge you to have one “Intimacy Audit.” Sit down with your partner (or your journal) and ask:
- What is one new sensation I want to experience this year?
- How can we make our bedroom a tech-free sanctuary?
- Which Lola Montez addition are we bringing into our collection first?
Here’s to a year of deeper breaths, softer touches, and more frequent “O-M-G” moments.
Welcome to a brand new day. Let’s make it your most intimate year yet.
Ready to start your journey? Explore our latest collection of intimate essentials and find the perfect match for your 2026 goals.