All About Domination and Submission
All About Domination and Submission All About Domination and Submission. Even though it might sound kinky and wild, many couples utilize playfully rough erotic acts in their own bedrooms. We used to call these activities S&M, meaning sadomasochistic. These days sex play that casts one partner in the dominant role and the other in the […]
Ageing is a funny thing!
Ageing is a funny thing! Ageing is a funny thing. I know we’re meant to be grateful that we have the privilege to age, and I am really. But hell, it’s not for sissies. I don’t think we were meant to get this old. In my family each generation is outliving the previous by at […]
10 Steps Reviving Intimacy
10 Steps Reviving Intimacy 10 Steps Reviving Intimacy. We spend so much time talking about sex, the actual physical nuts and bolts of it and ignore everything else that makes it work. These days with swiping left or right and hook ups we barely have time to decide if the person we are hooking up […]
Bring Romance Back
Bring Romance Back Bring Romance Back. This just does not come naturally to some of us. I am about as romantic as a hand grenade but that doesn’t mean that I can‘t appreciate it. Many couples tell me that they want more romance in their relationships. And, no, it’s not just women, men crave romance, […]
Can Men have Multiple Orgasms?
Can Men have Multiple Orgasms? Can Men have Multiple Orgasms? Women are constantly under pressure to perform like porn stars and believe me many of try. We will have designer bikini waxes, bleach our anus, and groan in ways that if heard in isolation sounds like wounded buffalo! We have to find and enjoy our […]
8 Steps for Consent
8 Steps for Consent 8 Steps for Consent. We’ve just come out of 16 Days of Activism against Gender-Based Violence. The 16 Days of Activism against Gender-Based Violence is an annual international campaign that kicked off on 25 November, the International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women, and ran until 10 December, International […]
NOvember
aNOvember. NOvember. I’m sure you’ve seen the social media around NOvember, it seems to be taking over from MOvember. NOvember is extremely relevant in South Africa with our out of control gender based violence. The play is on NO because No always means No. Saying no cannot not lead to a woman being assaulted or […]
Double Trouble and other finger techniques
Double Trouble and other finger techniques Double Trouble and other finger techniques. Last week we gave pleasure to the penis and this week it’s the vulva’s turn. Now for those of you who don’t know the vulva is the outside part of the female genitalia and the vagina the inside bits that you can’t see […]
Erogenous zones that aren’t genitals.
Erogenous zones that aren’t genitals. Erogenous zones that aren’t genitals. Regular readers will know that I often talk about prime real estate when it comes to foreplay. What I’m referring to is the areas on the body that are associated with sex and pleasure. They are the go-to areas, these include genitals and nipples. And […]
Menopause a wild ride.
Menopause a wild ride Menopause, a wild ride. Ah, menopause, the biological rollercoaster that takes women on a wild ride through hot flashes, mood swings, and an inexplicable desire to own more cats and eat your own children. It’s the time of life when your thermostat becomes your arch-nemesis, and chocolate becomes a legitimate form […]