Sex Toys and Supermarkets
Sex Toys and Supermarkets Sex Toys and Supermarkets. Not long ago I wrote a column on how irritated I am about how people perceive shops like Lola Montez and a colleague’s shop in Pretoria. I know I’m always bleating on about how we should normalize talking about sex and adult toys because I have a […]
From sexy inferno to sensual slow burn
From sexy inferno to sensual slow burn From sexy inferno to sensual slow burn. Sex sells. Fiery sex sells. Tied up sex sells. Romantic sex sells. Real mid-life and beyond sex, wrinkly sex, menopausal sex unfortunately doesn’t bring in the marketing budget, but it’s the real dirty pleasure secret! The truth that the marketing department is not […]
Guybrator Pleasure
Guybrator Pleasure Guybrator Pleasure. Not having a penis has its disadvantages. For one it is very difficult for me to imagine what will be pleasurable for a penis owner! I always suspect that it doesn’t need much to experience pleasure, but I may be way off the mark. I do think the penis is a […]
Having your needs met.
Unlocking Happiness: The Importance of Having Your Needs Met Unlocking Happiness, the importance of having your needs met. Last week I wrote about how to communicate with your partner during sex. If you missed it go back and have a read. This week I want to address what you can do when your partner can’t […]
The Art of Connection
The Art of Connection: How to Enhance Communication with Your Partner The art of connection – how to enhance Communication with your partner. Effective communication is the cornerstone of a healthy and fulfilling relationship. Whether it’s a romantic partnership, a familial bond, or a friendship, the ability to communicate openly and honestly can strengthen your […]
Endometriosis and Intimacy: Tips for Managing Pain and Enhancing Pleasure
Endometriosis and Intimacy: Tips for Managing Pain and Enhancing Pleasure Endometriosis and Intimacy: Tips for Managing Pain and Enhancing Pleasure. There’s a great deal of social media around endometriosis at the moment. I must say I didn’t ever think about it until my niece had a problem conceiving. Endometriosis was the diagnosis. I’m happy to […]
Knead to Know: Essential Massage Tips
Knead to Know: Essential Massage Tips Knead to Know: Essential Massage Tips for Men: I spoiled myself this week and had a full body massage. There was nothing erotic about it and certainly no happy ending. While I was lying there trying to get two years’ worth of knots out my shoulders, I wondered why […]
Fetish vs Kink
Fetish or Kink? Exploring the Differences in Erotic Play This week we celebrated Fetish Day. Since Fifty Shades of Grey made headlines a couple of years ago, there’s a lot more talk about fetish and kink. We often use the terms interchangeably and while some of the aspects are similar there is one very clear […]
Power of Yes: Why Teaching Consent is Crucial
Power of Yes: Why Teaching Consent is Crucial Power of Yes: Why Teaching Consent is Crucial. Every now and then I overhear something that really triggers me. It is usually from someone that I expect more from. Mostly it’s around ignorance and fear. Yesterday I heard a mum say that she doesn’t want her child […]
Pulse of Pleasure
The Pulse of Pleasure: How Checking In Enhances Sexual Connection Pulse of Pleasure – How checking in enhances sexual connection. Don’t you just love it when someone tells you to ‘communicate!’ For most of us it doesn’t come easy and even if it did, we wouldn’t know where to start. Many matters are left unsaid […]