Health Issues and Sex
Health Issues and Sex We often hear that sex is good for you and it is. It’s not just about procreation as some would have us believe. It is also about so much more. It’s about connection, intimacy, pleasure and health. 200 orgasms a year will also make you look about 4 years younger! It […]
Lubricants are not all equal
Lubricants are not all equal Lubricants are not all equal. When I was first married there was only one kind of lubricant available. It obviously wasn’t sold as a lubricant because that would have been too risky and embarrassing to buy. Considered a medical aid for suppositories and the like. Thick in substance and went […]
Channel Africa interview with Sharon Gordon
Channel Africa Interview with Sharon Gordon as a result of an article published in the Saturday Star – see the links and article below Read the original article here – https://iol.co.za/saturday-star/opinion/2026-01-16-seven-tiny-relationship-shifts-that-matter-more-than-grand-gestures/ Why does power taste like cream soda? Sexologist and Relationship Coach Sharon Gordon @SASexpert unpacks the metaphor and what it reveals in this snippet of […]
The Origin of Lola Montez
From a Pink Suitcase to a Luxury Brand: The Origin of Lola Montez In the landscape of the early 2000s, the “adult store” was a place of neon lights, windowless basements, and a palpable sense of unease. For many women, these spaces felt transactional at best and predatory at worst. Sharon Gordon saw this not […]
Rebellion and Romance of Lola Montez
More Than a Name: The Rebellion and Romance of Lola Montez When people walked into a Lola Montez boutique or visit our online store, they often ask: Who was she? The name wasn’t chosen because it sounded “vintage” or “chic.” It was chosen because Lola Montez was a woman who lived without permission. In a […]
Gifting a Sex Toy
Gifting a Sex Toy Gifting a Sex Toy. Have you ever thought of gifting a sex toy? I’m assuming of course that you are enlightened and own at least one if not several adult toys. If not show this article to your bestie and hope for the next birthday present to be a sex toy. […]
Bizarre Sex Records
Bizarre Sex Records Bizarre Sex Records. There is just so little research done on female sexuality. This includes the research on our body parts, how medication affects us, orgasms or the lack of orgasms, vaginismus and menopause. We are slowly starting. Imagine my surprise when I came across the wildest sex records! For a bit […]
Sex Toy Bans around the World
Sex Toy Bans around the World I’ve been in the adult toy industry now for over 22 years. At one time in the Old South Africa, sex toys and pornography were illegal. There was a great opportunity to smuggle Playboys over the border from Swaziland and sell them in SA. If you got caught, jail. […]
A Guide to Exploring Toys for Women-Seeking-Women
A Guide to Exploring Toys for Women-Seeking-Women: Beyond the Basics: At Lola Montez, we believe that exploring new sensations with your partner should be an exciting journey, not a confusing one. We recently received a wonderful enquiry from a couple looking to dive into the world of strap-ons, grinders, and wearable toys. Because we know […]
Season to be Kind
Season to be Kind Season to be Kind It’s that time of the year. We’re all rushing to slow down. I can feel the year impaled in my bones and cannot wait to take a break. If you’re in hospitality this is the busy and silly season, so be kind to those around you. I […]