Mind & Body: How Mental Health Shapes Your Sexual Well-Being

Mind & Body: How Mental Health Shapes Your Sexual Well-Being Mind & Body: How Mental Health Shapes Your Sexual Well-Being – 10 October is World Mental Health Day. When I hear about mental health, I’m torn between it’s important and suck it up. I’m of that generation where mental health wasn’t discussed and definitely wasn’t on […]
Do you watch Porn?

Do you watch porn? I bet your first instinct was to lie about it. Don’t feel bad, it’s a natural instinct. In a study conducted in 2023, 44% of adults claimed never to view porn. The study also found that watching pornography increases the likelihood of lying about it. This suggests that the percentages of […]
Kink Month Unleashed: Exploring the Art of Pleasure & Play

Kink Month Unleashed: Exploring the Art of Pleasure & Play Kink Month Unleashed: Exploring the Art of Pleasure & Play. According to some random on Instagram it’s National Kink Month. Not sure which nation, but what the hell, let’s take it as our own. Last week I was in Hannover, Germany for Erofame 24. It’s […]
Masturbation and madness

Masturbation and madness? Masturbation and madness. It will not drive you to madness. It doesn’t make you a sicko and it certainly isn’t sinful. I challenge you all to read the section of the Bible you’ve HEARD about but never actually read! Masturbation does not have to be a solo occupation nor is it bad […]
30 Days to Deeper Desire: A Challenge to Boost Sexual Intimacy

30 Days to Deeper Desire: A Challenge to Boost Sexual Intimacy 30 Days to Deeper Desire: A Challenge to Boost Sexual Intimacy. Are you ready for a challenge? This one is a sex challenge that will help you and your partner reconnect sexually. It may also increase intimacy and reawaken desire. It starts with you […]
40 Staycation Ideas

40 Staycation Ideas 40 Staycation Ideas. Share yours in the comments below and stand a chance to win a R1500 voucher to spend on lolamontez.co.za Here’s a list of 40 staycation ideas for couples that you can use in your blog. Feel free to adapt them to your audience: Romantic & Cozy Candlelit Dinner at […]
Breaking the Myths: The Truth About the Hymen and Virginity

Breaking the Myths: The Truth About the Hymen and Virginity Breaking the Myths: The Truth About the Hymen and Virginity. I often give talks to young girls about menstrual health and hygiene. As part of the discussion, I also talk about reproduction because as we hopefully all know that once you have had your first […]
Unlocking the Secrets: Threesome Experience

Unlocking the Secrets: How to Confidently Prepare for Your First Threesome Experience Unlocking the Secrets: How to Confidently Prepare for Your First Threesome Experience. Let’s talk about the most common sexual fantasy of them all. I was going to say fantasy but at my stage of life that amounts to eight hours of uninterrupted sleep! […]
Save It or Break It: The Ultimate Guide to Reviving or Ending Your Relationship

Save It or Break It: The Ultimate Guide to Reviving or Ending Your Relationship Save It or Break It: The Ultimate Guide to Reviving or Ending Your Relationship. I was once asked how come I had so many husbands and thought that I could hand out advise on sex, intimacy and relationships. I would have […]
Menopause & Your Vagina: What to Expect and How to Thrive

Menopause & Your Vagina: What to Expect and How to Thrive Menopause & Your Vagina: What to Expect and How to Thrive has finally hit the headlines. Halle Berry has developed a new lubricant range, Oprah is talking about it and many of us are, I hesitate to say, suffering from it. It’s not enough […]