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Sex toys for couples – how to choose.

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Sex toys for couples – how to choose.

Sex toys for couples – how to choose. You’ve read about it and maybe even heard your friends talk about it so you’ve both decided to introduce a sex toy to your relationship. It will be fun!

They’re called toys for a reason.

The question now is ‘Which one do we choose?’

  • There are different types of sex toys for different types of sex.
  • Then there are different levels of involvement during play.
  • Finding the right one for you is not as daunting as you think, because we’re here to help!

Absolute Beginners

If you’re totally new to sex toys in and outside of your relationship, you’re facing a bit of a learning curve of the most pleasurable variety.

  • Don’t go big until you’ve worked out what you’d like to try.

If you’re just starting out, a small, external vibrator like a Rocks Off Bamboo Bullet  is a wonderful buy. Use for clitoral stimulation, nipples, penis shaft and perineum.

Get one with a variety of different levels and pulsations. This will give you an idea of what kind of vibe suits you best.

If the thought of any type of vibrator scares you – and it shouldn’t than start with a good lubricant even if you think you don’t need it. They can be used for stimulating both your genitals.

Be creative!

Just browsing the website and buying your first adult toy instantly adds some extra spice to your play.


You’re already sex toy experienced but looking for new and novel ways to share your pleasure?

Get a little more creative by taking your sexual adventures outside of the bedroom (and the house, even).

Wearing pearl panties or even Benwa Balls is a sexy secret between you and your partner.

When wearing vagina balls inside the vagina, your movements will cause them to vibrate, for fantastic feelings that only you know.

Intermediate users can also try turning him into their favourite vibrator to make the sensations of sex even more pleasurable.

  • A wearable couples’ ring (AKA ‘VCR vibrating cock ring) not only offers a gentle bit of constriction to give him a slightly firmer, longer-lasting erection, but if it features a vibrating motor, it will transfer these sensations down the shaft of his penis and to her clitoris as well.
  • If you’ve got a powerful enough external vibrator, it can be placed against the base of his penis to provide some deeply resonant sensations during sex and foreplay.


Congratulations, graduate; you’ve tried it all (twice!) and are still looking for more ways to share?

You’re in luck, because we’ve got just the right vibes for advanced explorers of intimacy.

At this level, you’ll no doubt possess the bravery to share public passions outside the bedroom, so we’ve got a unique proposition for you; how about a vibrating egg-style vibrator you can wear discreetly inside while your partner controls the sensations with a wireless remote?

When it comes to teasing and foreplay, can there be anything more fantastic than that?

And when the foreplay ends and the main event begins, advanced users can take their pleasures to new peaks with the wearable couples’ vibrators.

They are usually U shaped and clip into the vagina to provide vibrating stimulation to both the G-Spot, Clitoris and Penis all at the same time. Look at the We Vibe and Lovense Ranges

These vibrators enhance the amazing sensations of lovemaking. They have a variety of pulses and levels of vibration and can be used in virtually any position you choose, especially doggy style, when it really ups the enjoyment.

Check out our Sex Toys for Couples section on our website and don’t forget to watch the videos on our YouTube channel.

Just because you’ve reached the upper levels of sex toy experience doesn’t mean you can just rest on your laurels.

Next you may want to really explore outside your comfort zones and try a bit of fantasy or fetish play.



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