My Little Secret
There comes a moment in our lives when curiosity quietly whispers…
“I wonder what all the fuss is about?”
Your Journey to Discovering Pleasure Starts Here
One of the gentlest introductions to pleasure. Designed for external stimulation with an elegant rose design that’s discreet and unintimidating. If you’re not mad about the tongue bit check our the Romp Rose Suction Vibrator. It’s so pretty it can stand on your bedside table.
Best for: Complete beginners
Soft silicone, premium quality and beautifully shaped for comfortable exploration without feeling overwhelming. You don’t have to use for penetration only. Explore your whole body.
Best for: Women wanting internal stimulation.
A smaller wand that delivers the famous massage sensation without the size of traditional wands. I love wands. They can be used for my shoulders and for pleasure. This wand is inexpensive and if you love it you can always upgrade.
Best for: Body massage and external pleasure.
Ready to explore both internal and external stimulation? This compact rabbit is an excellent first dual-stimulation toy.
A softer, bigger beginner-friendly rabbit vibrator that’s easy to use and wonderfully comfortable. Rabbits have remained popular since their launch into popular culture when Charlotte from Sex and City became obsessed.
It’s small and discreet. Fits into your handbag with ease, and road rage – no longer a problem.
Not every pleasure product vibrates. Technically these strengthen pelvic floor muscles while increasing body awareness so you feel very sexy using them.
Ideal to use after childbirth, during and after menopause.
The absolute best vibrator if you are hesitant about penetration. It slides in at your own pace. Twist and turn it to release tight vaginal muscles. It was designed especially for this. It’s a gentle introduction to intimate products.
Worth mentioning because it remains one of the best premium first purchases available on the site thanks to its design and tapping play.
If you’re ready to spoil yourself, this luxury toy combines air stimulation with internal vibration for an exceptional experience that’s surprisingly intuitive despite its advanced technology.
Five Wonderful Toys to Enjoy Together
Every pleasure product can become a couple’s toy, but these are specifically designed to make shared experiences even more enjoyable.
The gold standard for couples. Designed to be worn during intercourse while stimulating both partners.
Perfect for playful adventures with a partner or simply enjoying discreet vibrations at home.
❤️ Fifty Shades Sensation Rechargeable Vibrating Rabbit Ring
A beautifully designed vibrating ring that enhances sensation for both partners while remaining incredibly beginner-friendly.
❤️ Adrien Lastic Devol Cock Ring
Simple, effective and an affordable introduction to couple’s toys. Tongue in cheek design.
If there is one product we’d recommend alongside every first toy…
It’s lubricant.
A quality water-based lubricant makes toys feel more comfortable, improves sensation and helps protect delicate tissue.
Think of it as the difference between dancing in stiff shoes and dancing barefoot.
Your Little Secret Is Safe With Us
We know buying your first pleasure product can feel daunting.
That’s why every Lola Montez order includes:
- Discreet packaging
- Secure online shopping
- Trusted South African service
- Expert advice whenever you need it (we do keep office hours) – call 0861 LOLAMO (0861565266)
- Premium brands chosen for quality and safety
Ready to Begin?
The most difficult part of your pleasure journey is taking the first step.
After that comes confidence.
Then curiosity.
Then joy.
Whether you’re buying your very first vibrator, exploring intimacy after menopause, or simply looking for a little more excitement, My Little Secret is your invitation to discover pleasure at your own pace.
No pressure.
No judgement.
Just beautifully selected products designed to help you discover what feels good, for you.
Start Your Journey Today
Browse the My Little Secret collection see above and discover why thousands of South Africans trust Lola Montez to help them explore intimacy with confidence, discretion and a touch of luxury.
There comes a moment in our lives when curiosity quietly whispers…
“I wonder what all the fuss is about?”
Perhaps you’ve never owned an adult toy.
Maybe you’ve always believed they were only for “other people.”
Or perhaps you’ve looked online before, felt overwhelmed by hundreds of products, quietly closed the page and promised yourself you’d look again another day.
If that’s you…
Welcome.
My Little Secret was created especially with you in mind.
At Lola Montez we believe that pleasure should never feel intimidating. It should feel exciting, safe, empowering and completely free from judgement.
For over 20 years we’ve helped thousands of South Africans discover a healthier, happier relationship with intimacy. We’re being modest, Sharon Gordon has presented Internationally.
We know that everyone starts somewhere, and your first experience should leave you smiling, not wondering if you bought the wrong product.
Why Discover Pleasure?
People often think adult toys are simply about sex.
The truth is they’re about wellness, even the Victorians knew that. Scientific research continues to show that sexual pleasure can contribute to:
- Reduced stress
- Better sleep
- Improved mood
- Increased confidence
- Better body awareness
- Stronger pelvic floor muscles
- Greater relationship satisfaction
- Relief from sexual frustration
- Improved intimacy with a partner
- More satisfying orgasms
- And best of all, it is the ultimate anti-aging product. Oprah alleged that 200 orgasms a year could make you look 4 years younger.
For many women, a vibrator can also help encourage healthy blood flow, maintain vaginal elasticity and make intimacy more comfortable when combined with a quality lubricant.
There Is No “Normal”
Some people buy their first pleasure product at 21.
Others at 35.
Many women discover them after 50.
We’ve even welcomed first-time customers in their seventies.
There is no right age.
There is no right relationship status.
Whether you’re single, dating, married, divorced, widowed or simply curious…
You’re exactly where you’re meant to be.
Your First Toy Doesn’t Need to Be Scary and it really shouldn’t be!
One of the biggest mistakes first-time buyers make is choosing something far too large or complicated.
You don’t need dozens of vibration patterns.
Nor do you need app controls.
And you don’t need something that looks like it belongs in a science-fiction movie.
The best beginner toy is:
- Comfortable to hold
- Soft silicone
- Quiet
- Rechargeable
- Easy to clean
- Simple controls
- Small enough not to feel intimidating
Fortunately, Lola Montez has a dedicated beginner range to make choosing easier.
Our Top 10 Beginner-Friendly Toys