From Sex shops to Supermarkets.
From Sex Shops to Supermarkets From Sex shops to Supermarkets. Not long ago I wrote a column on how irritated I am about how people perceive shops like Lola Montez and a colleague’s shop in Pretoria called Pure Plesier. I know I’m always bleating on about how we should normalize talking about sex and adult […]
Penises are Growing.
Penises are Growing Penises are Growing. Earlier this week we were talking about last week’s column about innies and outies and my outrage about body shaming, when one of the trainers pointed out that penis size is also a ‘huge’ issue. Every woman in the gym burst out laughing and it came as a ‘bigger’ […]
Body Shaming Penis Size
Body Shaming Body shaming Penis Size. Earlier this week we were talking about last week’s column about innies and outies and my outrage about body shaming, when one of the trainers pointed out that penis size is also a ‘huge’ issue. Every woman in the gym burst out laughing and it came as a ‘bigger’ […]
Love Letters.
Love Letters When last did you write or receive a love letters? I remember when I was at school (during the rinderpest) we learnt how to address, structure and send a letter. We knew the difference between a love and a business letter. Our knuckles were beaten if we used slang, fortunately there were no […]
OhNut Review.
OhNut Review OhNut Review. I had no sex life at 22. This gave it back. I have endometriosis and one of my predominant symptoms is pain with sex. From the moment I lost my virginity, sex hurt. I thought it was like this for everyone. I am over the moon after using the OhNut because […]
Wetter the Better – why lube matters.
Wetter the Better – why lube matters I cannot live without lubricant! Wetter the Better. Okay maybe that’s an exaggeration, I can live but definitely cannot have sex without lubricant! Lubricant is a fantastic, sex-enhancing product specifically designed to increase slickness between moving body parts. Some people have the erroneous idea that hot sex doesn’t […]
Why does sex hurt, what to do about it
Why does sex hurt? Why does sex hurt? I’m always irritated when I read about a first-time experience, and it is described as painful. I’ve always believed that it was a way our mother’s discouraged us from having sex until we were married. So many of our sexual dysfunctions arise from the horror stories we’ve […]
Beginner Bondage where to start.
Beginner Bondage and where to start Beginner Bondage where to start. I thought that our appetite for BDSM had waned, but I was wrong. For those of you new to this world BDSM is an acronym for Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism. Bondage Play is not necessarily ‘hardcore’. Bondage fantasies are […]
I want more sex than him!
I want more sex than him! I want more sex than him! More and more we are starting to hear about and talk about the orgasm gap. It usually refers to the allegation that men have far more and easier orgasms than women. But what happens when you want sex more than he does? How […]
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